Holiday Weirdness

As this holiday approaches, everything is different. First, this feels like a weird holiday because I will not be with my parents and not because they aren't physically here but being together this year was impractical between flights and work schedules. That makes me feel a bit out of place because it is my family that makes my holidays. I am proud to say that I talk to my parents almost everyday, and I can't think of another way I'd have it. Second, my husband and I are on our own across the country from where we have spent the last 13 years for the holidays. This is insane because there will be no gifts (by choice) and we will be cooking and celebrating in small ways. This truly reminds us what Christmas is all about and why it is important to make sure all of those ideals are kept in mind! Third, and finally, it makes me realize that it is time to start making decisions for the long term. I wish my family was closer, and I guess I am understanding why some families never part ways (though I can't say I think that is healthy because what suited your family may not suit you.) 

As we come closer to Christmas Eve and then Christmas, remember to keep your family close, the presents small, and the memories big.