"Alas, poor Brutus..."

I can't believe that 2013 is so close to being over! As we are approaching the holidays, and it seems as though my days and nights are non-stop crazy, I am stopping to reflect.

First, for the first time in my entire life (all 31 years minus one but "Alas, poor Brutus, I knew him well..." that's another story), I will not be with my parents for Christmas. This is a horrifying thought, and not because of the gifts (we stopped exchanging years ago) but because it is scary and a little sad. I knew this would eventually happen, but I don't know that I was ready for it right now; thanks ridiculously priced airline tickets. I thought this might happen if we had kids or if there was some sort of crisis, but right now? These are the moments when you wished you lived closer or you could convince them to move. I have been fortunate that they have allowed me to spread my wings and encouraged me to move and go places that make me happy. Regrettably, that also leads to this eventual happening, where I will be across country for the holidays, and I won't get to harass my mom Christmas morning or play drunken scrabble Christmas night. or celebrate the impending New Year with a drink and a toast between parents and daughter. Now, this doesn't mean it is all bad, as there are plans to see one another several times in a short window of time, but for the holidays it makes me a little sad. In short (hahaha), if your family is close, don't take them for granted - invite them over more often, do silly things together no matter your (or their) age, appreciate them for all that they are, and make the holidays count. 

Second, as my nights have been a little insane, remember those grown up moments suck! I am not really sure why everyone is in a hurry to grow up; don't do it, it's a trap! I have always been an "old soul", but when you recognize that the conversations between you and your significant other can include; insurance, infertility, carpet cleaning, chores, upcoming plans with friends, budget, reupholstery, and family, you begin to realize that you have fallen comfortably into your thirties.  

Finally, in the crazy moments of the holidays, I will reiterate some things I have said before, don't spend money on gifts; enjoy the moments and the people around you.